Vice President Kamala Harris offered a refreshingly candid take on modern dating during a recent podcast appearance, advising young singles to be honest about what kind of relationship they are seeking.
From Political Strategy to Personal Advice
On the "Rich Little Brokegirls" podcast, which was posted on a Tuesday, the 2024 Democratic presidential nominee moved beyond typical campaign rhetoric to share personal insights on love and relationships. Her advice began with foundational principles, such as the importance of being kind to oneself and choosing a partner who is also kind and can share a laugh.
"Choose someone who allows you to laugh at yourself and them," Harris suggested, setting a tone of mutual respect and lightness as key ingredients for a connection.
Defining the 'Friday Night' and 'Sunday Morning' Relationship
The conversation then ventured into more intimate territory. Harris introduced a relatable framework for understanding different relationship phases based on personal readiness and life stages.
"There are different phases in your life," she told host Kimberly Ndubizu. "And depending on what phase you’re in, maybe you’re going to choose that you want to have that kind of Friday night relationship or you want that Sunday morning relationship."
Harris laughed at her own direct guidance, acknowledging the sometimes messy reality of dating. The host chimed in, noting that "sometimes they go together," to which Harris added, "And sometimes you can get both, and sometimes it’s oil and water. And that’s OK."
The Core of Harris's Message: Honesty and Self-Awareness
The Vice President's central message was one of self-honesty. She encouraged listeners to actively assess their romantic situations without judgment but with clarity.
"Be in those phases where you are having fun. Be in those phases where you have a sense of, you know, I just want something more," she said. "But be honest with yourself about what you’re in, and figure out whether what you’re in is actually what you want."
She emphasized that the first step is "to be honest about what you’re in" and warned against trying to force a connection to be something it is not, as "that usually doesn’t work out so well."
Harris speaks from personal experience, having met her husband, Doug Emhoff, on a blind date. The couple married in 2014, demonstrating her own successful navigation from a new connection to a committed partnership.
This personal anecdote grounds her advice, showing that her insights come from a place of real-world experience rather than abstract theory. The full exchange from the podcast can be found by fast-forwarding to the 14:20 minute mark.
