Crime Hunter: Did online sex chats drive wife to first internet murder?
Crime Hunter: Did online sex chats lead to first internet murder?

Bruce Miller was found dead behind the counter of his B&D Auto Salvage yard in Flint, Michigan, on Nov. 8, 1999, with a bullet in his chest. The quiet, Nascar-loving man had been looking forward to retirement. At first, investigators thought it was a robbery gone wrong—money and his wallet were missing. But the case soon unraveled as the first internet murder, driven by online sex chats and manipulation.

The Widow's Story

Sharee Miller, then 26, was two decades younger than her husband. She had started as a bookkeeper at the yard, and romance blossomed. They married in April 1999, blending their families. Bruce considered her the perfect wife. But behind the scenes, Sharee had discovered adult online chat rooms months before the murder. Using aliases like Horny 7241 and IWANTTOBELAID, she lived out sexual fantasies with strangers.

She initially pointed fingers at former co-worker John Hutchinson, claiming a sexual affair and that he owed Bruce $2,000. Hutchinson became the prime suspect, failing a lie detector test. But the real plot involved Jerry Cassaday, a former top-ranked Kansas City homicide detective who had moved to Reno and was struggling after a broken marriage.

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The Manipulation

Sharee met Cassaday on a girls' trip to Reno. She sent him sexually explicit emails and videos, signing off as “your fool for life, big daddy.” She lied that Bruce physically and sexually abused her, even claiming a beating caused her to miscarry Cassaday's baby. The former cop was a pigeon waiting to be plucked. The conversation turned to murder, and Sharee insisted she wanted Bruce dead.

“It was crazy that a person 800 miles away had been talked into coming up here, committing a murder, going back, and leaving no evidence,” retired Sheriff's Det.-Lieut. Kevin Shanlian told Oxygen. “How did she get him to commit this murder?”

The Breakthrough

By February 2000, John Hutchinson was still the prime suspect. Then a Missouri lawyer called Michigan detectives. Jerry Cassaday had died by suicide, leaving a note instructing his lawyer to go to the police with a briefcase of evidence. It included sexually explicit messages, a hard drive, directions to Bruce's yard, and instructions from Sharee. She told him: “Just do it and get the hell out of there.”

Sharee denied everything but later confessed to an affair with Cassaday, claiming he was obsessed and blackmailed her. After Bruce's murder, she dumped Cassaday and moved on. “I think she would have gotten away with it if she had not dumped her boyfriend a month later,” said Sheriff's Sgt. Ives Potrafka.

The Trial

Court TV covered the trial gavel-to-gavel in December 2000, riveting the nation as the first internet murder case. The evidence was largely circumstantial, though Sharee stood to receive Social Security and life insurance payouts. The legal landscape looked favorable until she testified against her lawyers' advice. “Once again, that suggests her hubris. She thought she could get anyone to believe her,” jury foreman Michael Thorp later said.

Sharee Miller was convicted of second-degree murder and conspiracy to commit first-degree murder, sentenced to life without parole. She later admitted she wanted Cassaday to kill her husband, fearing Bruce would discover her affair and leave her broke.

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