At 19, the future typically glimmers with limitless possibilities. For Whistler resident Eliza Hargrave, those possibilities are hard-won victories, thanks to her mother Sue's extraordinary perseverance.
Against All Odds
When Eliza was born, doctors told Sue her daughter would never talk or walk. But Sue, a woman of considerable determination, set out to ensure Eliza would have every opportunity for a full life. Motherhood became the tinder of miracles as Sue moved mountains for her child.
Sue immersed herself in every early intervention program offered by B.C.'s Centre For Ability. She believed earlier intervention meant greater progress. Therapy of every description filled each day. Eliza was non-verbal until age four, so Sue learned sign language alongside her daughter. Steady exposure and repetition eventually helped Eliza overcome several hurdles, and those efforts have continued with astonishing results.
Remarkable Progress
Today, Eliza's challenges are not immediately evident. She has a heart-shaped face and a quick smile, and she is a charming conversationalist who wants to know all about you. She walks and talks as well as anyone, defying the dire prognostications of her infancy.
But other hurdles remain. Sue worries about Eliza's future—more complex than typical parental concerns. Eliza will need assistance throughout her life, preventing her from living completely independently. Sue worries about how Eliza will manage when she is no longer able to provide that support. It is a worry that keeps her up at night.
Housing Challenges
Most people move several times in their lives. People with developmental disabilities usually make only one move—from home to an assisted-living facility. When parents can no longer provide care, options are limited. Sue notes that people with disabilities have about $500 per month allocated for rent, but making rent is only half the problem. The transition from living with caring family to managing alone is daunting.
Sue Hargrave's response to this challenge is The Traverse, private housing units for individuals with developmental disabilities. Her work ensures that not only her daughter but others in similar situations have a path to independence and dignity.
