From Haiti to Montreal: A Mother's Journey
Valencia arrived in Montreal from Jérémie, Haiti twelve years ago with what she describes as "three young children and another in my belly." The 39-year-old mother discovered she was pregnant shortly after her arrival, and today she's raising five children ranging in age from five to 23 years old.
The Struggle to Provide
"It wasn't easy when I got here," Valencia recalled. "I was all by myself with my kids." She had to rely on friends to watch her children when she had appointments, and even now, making ends meet remains a constant challenge.
Valencia works three overnight shifts weekly as an attendant at a seniors residence in Montreal. Her two oldest daughters, who are both students with part-time jobs covering their personal expenses, care for the younger siblings during her shifts. Despite this arrangement, the family's income remains insufficient, prompting Valencia to seek additional work two more nights per week.
The family regularly visits their local food bank, which Valencia says "helps a lot" with their grocery needs. She's currently preparing paperwork to become a Canadian citizen, having lived in the country with permanent resident status since her arrival.
Family Responsibilities Extend Beyond Canada
Valencia's financial responsibilities extend beyond her immediate family in Montreal. Her mother remains in Haiti alone, dealing with significant health issues. As an only child, Valencia feels compelled to send money regularly to support her mother, who has no other children to assist her.
The family initially settled in St-Michel but soon moved to the St-Laurent borough, where they've remained ever since. Despite the financial hardships, Valencia expresses clear preference for life in Montreal compared to Haiti.
"Yes, we might not have enough money, but we get by," Valencia said. "In Haiti, it's not safe. Here the kids can go to school. In any case, that's life. You have to be satisfied with what you have."
She particularly values the safety Montreal provides, contrasting it with Haiti "where we can't even walk down the street."
Hope for the Future
Without a college degree herself, Valencia places immense importance on her children's education. The assistance she'll receive from the Gazette Christmas Fund will help her purchase necessities for her children and hopefully some Christmas gifts.
"I'd like to find another job," Valencia said, "but if I can't, I'll live with what I have." Her story represents one of many that will benefit from the Christmas Fund this holiday season.
