A recent survey has found that the escalating cost of divorce is compelling many Canadians to stay in unhappy marriages for extended periods. The study highlights a growing trend where financial constraints are overshadowing personal well-being, leading to prolonged emotional strain for couples and their families.
Financial barriers to separation
The survey, conducted by a national research firm, indicates that legal fees, court costs, and the overall expense of divorce proceedings are major deterrents. Many respondents reported that the financial burden of divorce is so significant that they feel trapped in their current relationships, despite dissatisfaction.
One participant noted, “We simply cannot afford to split. The costs are overwhelming, and we have to consider our children’s future.” This sentiment was echoed across various demographics, with lower-income households particularly affected.
Impact on mental health
Experts warn that remaining in an unhappy marriage can have severe mental health consequences. Prolonged stress, anxiety, and depression are common among individuals who feel unable to leave. The survey found that nearly 40% of respondents reported declining mental health due to their inability to divorce.
“Financial worries are adding to the emotional toll,” said Dr. Emily Carter, a family psychologist. “Couples are sacrificing their happiness for financial stability, which is not sustainable in the long run.”
Calls for reform
Advocacy groups are urging the government to address the high cost of divorce through legal aid reforms and simplified procedures. They argue that accessible divorce options would reduce the burden on families and the court system.
“We need to make divorce more affordable and less adversarial,” said Sarah Thompson, a family law attorney. “Mediation and collaborative divorce are cheaper alternatives, but they are not widely known or used.”
The survey underscores a pressing issue in Canadian society, where financial realities are dictating personal life choices. As costs continue to rise, more couples may find themselves trapped in unhappy unions, highlighting the need for systemic change.



