A day at the beach can be wonderful, but inconsiderate fellow beachgoers can quickly ruin the experience. According to Nick Leighton, an etiquette expert and co-host of the 'Were You Raised by Wolves?' podcast, etiquette is about being mindful of others, even outdoors. To help everyone enjoy the beach, HuffPost consulted etiquette experts to highlight common faux pas to avoid.
Encroaching on Others' Space
Jodi R.R. Smith, president of Mannersmith Etiquette Consulting, suggests finding a spot at least three paces from others' belongings to give personal space. This spacing allows people to walk between towels without kicking sand. In crowded conditions, be extra careful when walking past others. Diane Gottsman, author of 'Modern Etiquette for a Better Life,' advises not assuming others want to talk; watch body language and respect earbuds as a sign they want to be left alone.
Blocking Views
Be mindful of people behind you when setting up. Smith notes that umbrellas or tents should not obstruct others' view of the water. While bringing comforts from home is fine, ensure they don't hinder others' enjoyment of the scenery.
Ignoring Smoking Etiquette
If smoking is allowed, head far away from others and dispose of butts properly. Smith warns that cigarette butts buried in sand can be dangerous for birds, dogs, and children if ingested.
Not Respecting Local Wildlife
Avoid feeding birds or other animals, as it impacts the ecosystem. Smith reminds beachgoers to return starfish and other creatures to the water before leaving, as they are not pets.
Shaking Sand on People
Etiquette expert Juliet Mitchell, known as Ms. J, says it's rude to shake towels or sandy clothing near others or into the wind. Smith recommends a 'gather, then shake' approach: walk away from people before shaking sand from blankets and towels, especially on windy days.
Playing Games Near Others
Leighton advises finding a clear area away from people for games like Frisbee, as flying objects can make others nervous. Gottsman urges setting up volleyball nets away from others and avoiding games that kick up sand near people.
Making Noise
Many people visit the beach for peace and relaxation. Leighton notes that music and loud phone conversations can travel beyond your blanket and affect others. Mitchell advises watching language, especially around children, and avoiding profanity and fighting.
Leaving a Mess
Littering is not only rude and illegal but also dangerous. Mitchell urges everyone to clean up their area before leaving and never litter intentionally.
Not Following the Rules
Public and private beaches have rules for safety. Gottsman emphasizes following signs and flags, and staying within swim boundaries. Mitchell notes boundaries are set for a reason. Leighton adds that etiquette is local, so learn and follow each beach's customs.
